tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post7116775175936803058..comments2024-01-29T09:52:55.934-05:00Comments on The ADHD Blog: Sports and DadsThe ADHD Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03283319351468904913noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-42414887153565685472008-03-28T09:40:00.000-05:002008-03-28T09:40:00.000-05:00Good article. I was hoping to take Steven over to...Good article. I was hoping to take Steven over to the new baseball stadium (Iron Pigs) to see if he would be interested. ALthough I don't try to push Steven into any sports, I do agree with the article and would like to teach him the positive aspects of sports and then see if he catches on with one. We'll see...one day he might like to golf?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-61694731653542758602008-03-27T17:08:00.000-05:002008-03-27T17:08:00.000-05:00I had tears in my eyes as I read Mr. Ross' story o...I had tears in my eyes as I read Mr. Ross' story on introducing his son to sports. My husband and I take the same approach with our 8 yr. old son. Like Mr. Ross' son, our son did not like karate, can't stand soccer, likes baseball, but really struggles now with kid pitching. He likes playing 3rd base, and does well. In watching him, I think it is because he knows exactly what he is suppose to do - catch the ball, step on base, and tag the in-coming runner. We haven't added the "throw to first, yet". The heartbreaking part is in working within our community. Although the community "preaches" an all-inclusive environment, the reality is different. The coaches during fall league get to pick their players, rather than the draft, and it turns into a clique. Children that don't perform as well, whether due to ADHD, other disability or just skill level are not allowed to play as much.<BR/>I have also privately shared with the coaches that our son has ADHD, and is on medication. I let them know that he will do better during the day, but may struggle to pay attention and follow through later in the day or at night. Our first coach was very understanding - and encouraged our son tremendously. The second season was rough, as it got much more competitive(and we are talking 8 yr olds!!) and the most attention was given to the "star" players.<BR/>My husband and I thought that the years before high school were for learning the game, and learning how to play as a team. We are constantly disappointed as we see the parents around us, screaming at their kids to "do better, work harder, don't drop the ball, pay attention...etc...etc..."<BR/>As long as our son enjoys playing - we will support him. If it gets to the point that he know longer enjoys it, we will look at other options. In the meantime, our son is learning the instrument of his choice - guitar, and looking forward to continuing his swim lessons.<BR/>Like Mr. Ross, my husband and I look forward to watching a baseball game with our son, or filling out the brackets during March Madness or watching a live performance of Eric Clapton on guitar(which REALLY interests him now!).<BR/>Thank you to Mr. Ross for sharing such an important insight into raising his son, and introducing him to the world of sports.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-43174545626960071872008-03-27T17:02:00.000-05:002008-03-27T17:02:00.000-05:00I read your blog all the time. It is the best thin...I read your blog all the time. It is the best thing on the CHADD site. But I have to say this week's was one of your best. Keep on keeping us informed.<BR/><BR/>DougAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-60896687613855158572008-03-26T15:57:00.000-05:002008-03-26T15:57:00.000-05:00Great job with the statement. How do you plan to p...Great job with the statement. How do you plan to publicize it? Inquiring minds want to know!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-20062502295595666612008-03-26T15:21:00.000-05:002008-03-26T15:21:00.000-05:00I am a father of an AD/HD child (now age 25) who i...I am a father of an AD/HD child (now age 25) who is also developmentaly delayed in many respects. She qualifies for Special Olympics in which she has participated since 8 years old. <BR/><BR/>Special Olympics has been a fantastic opportunity for her to participate in a variety of sports as well as provide her primary and very positive circle of friends. She has trained and competed in swimming, gymnastics, basketball, soccer, alpine (downhill) skiing and equestrian. I highly highly recommend that children and adults that qualify for Special Olympics take advantage of this wonderful program.<BR/><BR/>I also have benefited greatly from Special Olympics as I have been volunteering and coaching for these many years. I can truly say that it has made me a better father, husband and employer. I have learned to really see everyone as an individual with unique strangths and challenges. We are all special in different ways.<BR/><BR/>It has also been rewarding for me to watch as the young athletes grow in ability and mature to adults with the same benefits of sport and social belonging that all youths enjoy.<BR/><BR/>So please involve your children if appropriate and volunteer your time and finacial support.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-9551175449492654782008-03-26T15:11:00.000-05:002008-03-26T15:11:00.000-05:00When my son was young, sports became the best way ...When my son was young, sports became the best way to him to use his extra "energy." We were fortunate to have a coach at our local park who took the time to understand him, teach him and give him a love of sports. I am convinced that the lessons he learned helped him control his emotions and understand his "differences." Today, he is 16 years old, a 4.0 student and top athlete in both baseball and basketball. Please...never give up trying...there is always something out there for every child.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-79926468993620222162008-03-26T14:35:00.000-05:002008-03-26T14:35:00.000-05:00Hi, Thought I'd let you know I just signed up for ...Hi, Thought I'd let you know I just signed up for your RSS. I'd love to stay connected because I'm the blog writer for the Edge Foundation which provides coaches for high school and college students with ADHD. (www.edgefoundation.org/blog) If you are ever looking for blog content, I'd be happy to share with you. PeggyUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01231237849865984757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-60626911546227449922008-03-26T12:08:00.000-05:002008-03-26T12:08:00.000-05:00I had no idea this was an issue. When did you star...I had no idea this was an issue. When did you start the blog? It appears to be pretty old. I see that you're covering a lot of ground. A proud CHADD member here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-51731815573421099532008-03-26T12:06:00.000-05:002008-03-26T12:06:00.000-05:00I enjoyed reading your article. I, a mother, has ...I enjoyed reading your article. I, a mother, has been the primary care giver for my son and his disability. Unfortunately, my husband is physically challenged with Multiple Sclerosis. We tried soccer, but he was more interested in the rocks on the field than playing the game. So the coach, just ignored him and didn't try and work with him.<BR/><BR/>He has never expressed an interest in sports, but I feel it is because my husband was never able to toss a ball with him in the yard, as most dads do.<BR/><BR/>Fortunately, we did find a karate school that has wonderful teaches with the patience that Tyler deserves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-28752772318819902112008-03-26T12:04:00.000-05:002008-03-26T12:04:00.000-05:00ADHD doesn't just exclude children from sports, bu...ADHD doesn't just exclude children from sports, but it also can make it difficult to participate in other groups like Brownies and Cub Scouts. I just had one of those experiences with my daughter this week. I invite you to read about it at my blog: http://freerangemom.blogspot.com/2008/03/life-lessons-on-childhood-and-diversity.htmlAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14196325548428548237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7789515854942440667.post-17589746897181792702008-03-26T11:14:00.000-05:002008-03-26T11:14:00.000-05:00I enjoyed this. Your story is inspiring. THanks fo...I enjoyed this. Your story is inspiring. THanks for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com